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RCG welcomes individuals who are lesbian, gay or bisexual, and all transgender people. Many of the issues faced by LGBTQ survivors will be the same faced by others however there may be specific issues also. Sometimes LGBTQ survivors are told that their sexual orientation or gender identity is a direct result of the sexual violence that they have experienced. There is no evidence of a link between sexual violence and sexual orientation/gender identity.
Being raped because of your sexual orientation or gender identity is not only an act of sexual violence, but is also a hate crime and should be treated as such. Sexual violence as a form of homophobic hate crime can include so-called ‘corrective rape’ which aims to ‘cure’ people of their homosexuality/bisexuality/transgender identity. This can increase the sense of self-blame that many survivors feel, as a core part of your identity has been attacked. No one asks to be sexually assaulted, and the person who is responsible for rape is always the rapist. Our non-judgemental and caring support staff will enable you to work through all the different feelings that you may have.
Statistically, transgender people experience sexual violence at a disproportionate rate and may find support more difficult to access. At RCG, transgender and non-binary individuals will receive the same level of support as other survivors- a service that is person centred and tailored to each individual’s specific needs. If there is anything that we need to do to help you to feel safe and supported in RCG, please let us know and we will try our best to make it happen.
Many LGBTQ people may be reluctant to report because of a fear of being discriminated against. The police have a duty under the Equality Act to not discriminate against people on the grounds of sexual orientation and gender identity, and if you feel that you have been discriminated against then you have the right to make a complaint.
A worker at RCG can support you through the process of reporting if you feel this would be helpful to you. You could also make a third party report through the us or another agency, such as LGBTQ Youth or Gay Men’s Health. This means that you can anonymously pass on details about what happened to the police,and help them to gather information.
I’m a gay or bisexual man who has experienced sexual violence. Where can I get support?
There are services that offer support to men who have experienced sexual violence, the details of which are below.
Rape Crisis Grampian: local number for Aberdeen: 01224 590932
Rape Crisis Scotland: helpline for male and female survivors: 08088 01 03 02
Gay Men’s Health: provides a counselling service to gay or bisexual men around any issue: 0141 552 0112